Sunday Best – December 24, 2023 (with book list!)

On my way to visit family this week, I saw a man shouting at the TSA agents, a family sprinting to the gate in their pajamas, and a person so anxious to fly that they embraced their companion’s arm like a boa constrictor for the entire flight.

It wasn’t until I was settled in my own seat, gazing out at the solstice sunrise, that I realized I’d been holding my breath too. Wrapping up the last work project, packing a ridiculously large suitcase of presents, waking for the dawn flight… even though these were happy preparations, they were not full of calm and ease. I do not think I thanked the check-in agent properly. I know for sure that I was mad about the too-long line for coffee, as if it were an orchestrated personal insult.

Dear ones, it is a season of joy, yes. And also, it can be hard, in tiny ways and profound ones.

May we cultivate care, for ourselves and for others.

May we demonstrate grace.

May we honor the stresses and sorrows.

May we revel in each moment of joy.

 

There are few things more restorative to me than curling up with a good book. With that in mind, I’m glad to share my end-of-year Honeybee book list, with all best wishes for the new year.

 

 

 

Sunday Best – December 17, 2023

Today I turned off the news and set aside the lists for a bit.

I read a poem as the sun rose.

I made cookies with a dear friend.

I viewed some footage of magnificent sea creatures. 

I saw a tiny rosebud blooming beyond the frost.

Dear friends, our world is full of heartaches, yes.

And full of wonders, too.

 

 

 

Sunday Best – December 10, 2023

Summer friends will melt away… but winter friends are friends forever.    – George R.R. Martin 

 

These past days have been full of little sparks from friends. A random text about a ‘90’s TV star, a link to an online concert, an invitation for cookie baking – all shining out from a sea of other inbound messages. 

Alongside these sparks were added glimmers from the season’s rituals. The tree-lighting ceremony in the park, the scratch of skaters in the ice rink, the subconscious humming along to holiday muzak – all linked to years of familiar fondness, just like those notes from friends. 

When the days are sunny and bright, it’s easy to for the sparkles to be lost in the glare of bigger lights. But when darkness falls, whether literal or metaphorical, a spark can be a blaze.

Dear ones, as the days grow shorter, let’s gather up the light.

 

 

Sunday Best – December 3, 2023

Legendary investor Charlie Munger passed away this week at the age of 99. Volumes have been written, and more will come, about Munger’s wisdom and his exemplary multi-decade partnership with Warren Buffett. What stands out most to me are two lessons, one from the very start of his professional life and one from the very end.

When Charlie was a young lawyer, he disliked the idea that his time was for sale to others, and decided to “bill himself” by working an hour a day on his own priorities instead of his clients’ projects. I’ve often caught myself putting obligations to others ahead of my own most important endeavors, and while there is an occasional whiff of nobility in this kind of self-sacrifice, it is not a path to either greatness or contentment. Munger’s example showed me that it’s possible to pursue independent dreams without forsaking others, nor abandoning common sense.

Near the end of his life, the most insistently repeated advice Munger highlighted was the importance of learning – endless reading, exploring, and engagement with the world and its ideas. In this past year’s Berkshire Hathaway annual report he was quoted, 

You have to keep learning if you want to become a great investor. When the world changes, you must change.


Even more remarkable than the brainy parts of Charlie’s success is the fact that they were accompanied by constant wit. Warren noted in this same report, “I never have a phone call with Charlie without learning something. And, while he makes me think, he also makes me laugh.”

Dear ones, we might not all be destined to become 99-year old billionaires.

But let us be steadfast and true.

Let us invest in lifelong friendships.

Let us help each other to think.

Let us laugh together along the way.

 

 

A coincidentally timed and beautiful new edition of Poor Charlie’s Almanack , Munger’s collected wisdom, will be published this week – this volume comes highly recommended, especially since the original unabridged version is a bit harder to find these days. 

Sunday Best – November 26, 2023

Dear friends, perhaps these last weeks (months? years?) have felt a little sprint-y for you, too – and even the happiest sprints can leave us breathless.

Let’s take in the air of this fresh new morning, with the help of John O’Donohue.

 

A Morning Offering

  by John O’Donohue

 

I bless the night that nourished my heart
To set the ghosts of longing free
Into the flow and figure of dream
That went to harvest from the dark
Bread for the hunger no one sees.

All that is eternal in me
Welcome the wonder of this day,
The field of brightness it creates
Offering time for each thing
To arise and illuminate.

I place on the altar of dawn:
The quiet loyalty of breath,
The tent of thought where I shelter,
Wave of desire I am shore to
And all beauty drawn to the eye.

May my mind come alive today
To the invisible geography
That invites me to new frontiers,
To break the dead shell of yesterdays,
To risk being disturbed and changed.

May I have the courage today
To live the life that I would love,
To postpone my dream no longer
But do at last what I came here for
And waste my heart on fear no more.

 

This blessing is included in one of my favorite volumes, O’Donohue’s To Bless the Space Between Us, which I turn to time and time again.

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