
This season marks twenty years since David Foster Wallace’s “This is Water” address was given at Kenyon College.
The talk starts with a parable where an old fish swims by two young fish and greets them by asking, “How’s the water?” One of the young fish turns to the other and says, “What the heck is water?”
In the following essay, Wallace defines the water. He concludes:
The capital-T Truth is about life BEFORE death.
It is about the real value of a real education, which has almost nothing to do with knowledge, and everything to do with simple awareness; awareness of what is so real and essential, so hidden in plain sight all around us, all the time, that we have to keep reminding ourselves over and over:
“This is water.”
“This is water.”
It is unimaginably hard to do this, to stay conscious and alive in the adult world day in and day out.
Friends, I re-read this essay each year at about this time, because it is somehow always newly and sharply illuminating – often painfully so.
Dear ones, it is so hard to see the water in which we swim.
May we be aware.
May we be alive.
The terrific Farnam Street site offers links to both the audio and full text of This is Water, and here is the book link to a beautiful small volume of the speech.
Image: detail from Frederic William Burton’s “Hellelil and Hildebrand,” on view just a few hours each week to protect its fragile beauty.

The contrast of sublime and mundane on any given day can be dizzying.
This way to the once-in-a-lifetime exhibit! But first, the restroom.
Behold the glorious sunset! And did you unload the dishwasher?
Here is the splendor of the seaside cliffs! And also, the snack bar.
Listen to this Nobel Prize winner discuss the nature of reality! And here’s your oatmeal.
Dear ones, each moment holds astonishing breadth.
May we celebrate
end to end.
* Stained glass from Irish artist Evie Hone, on exhibit this summer at Dublin’s National Gallery.

I am happily unplugged this weekend, roaming grassy hills and eating blackberries from the side of the pathway and reveling in poems like this one.
Dear ones, may we savor the things that won’t keep.

On one of our steamier days this past week, I belatedly gave a little tomato plant some water. Within minutes it had perked right up, the wilted leaves regaining their form and the outer stems lifting from their dejected state. What a marvel!
The next day brought a slow, steady, gentle rain. When I next saw the tomato, she was transformed! Every leaf stretched outward, every stem straightened upward. The amazing recovery I’d seen earlier was but a tiny fragment of this plant’s true potential.
Dear ones, we all know how wonderful it feels to have a sip of water when we’re parched, whether literal or metaphorical. An hour’s rest, a delicious meal, a hug from a loved one, a chance to meet a frog dangling on a pond’s surface… all of these can restore us, just like that first drop during a heat wave.
What if we dared to drink our fill?

The great Joanna Macy passed on last week, and I’ve been reflecting on the tremendous scope of her life and the many forms of wisdom she shared.
Years ago I was fortunate to attend a weeklong retreat with Joanna. What I imagined as a dreamy, restful time in the redwoods was anything but. For the first time I was not asked to come up with a whiteboard of solutions, or make an impassioned argument, or to sit in quiet contemplation. Instead I was required to acknowledge the grief that sits at the heart of all worthy endeavors, whether they honor people or ideas or planet.
Ooof.
This was encouraging, and empowering, and restorative.
But first it was hard.
This time with Joanna left me with the first strands of a net that has grown to be a great support in both life and work. When I am able to sit with the grief, the full power of the love is unboxed and able to shine through.
Dazzling.
Eternal.
Infinite.